Geez, your STBX is a piece of work, isn't he? Maybe he's ticked because he had to get his own phone service. It sounds a little like,' I don't want you but I don't want anyone else to have you, either'. My H does that, too. I will never understand how they can treat us with such disdain and then get territorial.
So glad you had fun last night! I think GALing truly keeps us sane. I've been thinking about you, DG, and keeping you in my prayers!