slow down. Why MUST you decide to "DO" something this minute?
I still don't get the big rush. Are there financial reasons for it? I asked I think twice now so I'm guessing you did not "have to file" for financial protection.
If you did, then you did what you had to do...
but if not, then see the note by Val as GOLDEN INSIGHT and change your course of action.
Not much of this is irrevocable.
Stop reacting so fast to everything. Post here first if you want, or at least sleep on it.
We are all here hoping to help you salvage your marriage but if not, at least to salvage yourself.
Read up on co-dependencies...Remember I also asked if YOU had attended any family therapy while he was in rehab? Well, did you?
What triggered him getting sober anyhow?
Read "Co-Dependent No More" and stop looping around in your head. Take the exit ramp and SLOW DOWN and'
take some deep breaths. Convince yourself so you can convince your son that
this too, shall pass and you WILL be alright...You will get through this.
Its true...
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
