Thank you for the advice. I just read it now after he had left. I didn't look my best but I had the attitude in check. He was helpful, he didn't say anything just that he missed me.. Fixed everything and fell asleep for about 20 min.
As he was leaving I took out the dog again and he asked that I pick up the phone when he calls. I said we have nothing to discuss, to which he said we do. Hugged me and started crying. He said he was sorry this had to happen then brought up some lame excuse which he told me not to do long ago..
I just walked away as I felt it was better to say nothing. Should he still love me or should it be so hard to let me go he'd make the choice to be with me which he didn't.. So what's there to say?
Me: 28 H: 40 Together: 10yrs Married: 6 yrs OW, ILYBNIL: june15/ 2011 I moved out/ ow moved in: nov 2nd/2011 H and ow no longer live together: may 1/2012