I think you are finding some new ways to be...you Antonia. I applaud that. I think you should offer it as well. With no expectations of so much as an acceptance or a thank you. Just offer it and let it go.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."