Here's a synopsis timeline if you're interested. It will just give you an idea of the roller coaster ride I'm sure you are familiar with.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2129658&page=3

I remember the moment I made the decision w/ myself that I had to be his best friend and not her. I had to be the chosen one and not her. Then I told him. It was hot that day and we were in the pool. I swallowed hard and said that I loved him, wanted our M to work, wanted him to stay and choose me, but he should probably go to her and see what this is. I was still told it was an EA and I feared he would need to explore the physical. I knew I wouldn't live through it. I told him to go.


M 55 H 58 M 24 T 29
S 22,21, 19
Bomb 4/10
It (A) really isn't about you 11/2013
We all have work to do


The truth will set you free, but it will almost kill you first.