Hey, itm, I can understand you're wanting to get the nasty thing out of your garage. I personally would have donated it, but you did what you needed to do. Although, it would have made a nice bonfire, but it also might have made headlines in the paper.
So, you don't have to worry about that anymore.

I guess you'll hear about whether or not he was served soon enough. Sorry your S is having a tough time of it.

You have to know it is not all your fault what is happening. Yes, you had a hand in things, but so did he, so don't beat yourself up so much. You are going to do what you can to save your M, so at least you will know you did your best. And your S will see that, too.

vc