At some point, maybe you aren't ready for it but I highly suggest the "after the affair" book. I know things are still raw, but it gave me valuable insight to my wife's EA.
It also helped me along the road to forgiveness. Because regardless of what happens, you can't hold onto the anger you feel forever. it's okay now and I completely understand it.
Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. --Jean Jacques Rousseau.
