I completely see where you're coming from Oldtimer. Funny thing is we had a conversation similar to that last night. I did in fact tell him I was sorry to hear about the fall out of his "friend". I told him that he didn't need to do that if he didn't want to, and he went into the explanation about whatever stupid thing she said that made him mad.
He knows how I feel about their friendship. He knows there is no future with me as a couple if it still continues. And he also knows that I am willing to just be friends with him for our kids if that is the path he chooses. He knows that his future is in his hands at this point. I guess I just have to wait and see what he chooses to do from here on out...
M:38, H:37, SS:17, D:12 ILYBINILWY: Aug. 2011 OW Discovered: Mid Aug. 2011 Piecing from Aug. - Oct.2011 I Moved out: Nov.2011 Moved back in piecing since: Nov. 5, 2011 H talking to OW again: May 15