Yeah, that comment he made was not acceptable, that's rubbing salt in a wound. In what world would that be a joke?

Hard to say if it's better to stand up for yourself and let him know it bothered you, or to just blow it off and not dignify it, but what he did was definitely way over the line.

Sorry Hopeful, you deserve better treatment than that. Keep focusing on yourself and don't look to H for validation.

--Accuray

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015