Well, my H left this morning for TN. He text me to remind that he would be out of town this weekend and wanted to drop our D's stroller off to me. I didn't think that was necessary, but I wasn't going to tell him that. Because I wanted to see him. He came over last night and stayed about 15 mins. We talked about his therapy appt that he had yesterday. She put him on Zoloft for his depression and aniexty. He did say he asked her why was he so angry at the world and depressed. It's coming from his childhood.
When he was leaving last night, I walked him to the door. We stood there and talked another 5 minutes or so. I was hoping for a hug at last, but nothing. Then he told me what his female coworker told him yesterday. She said "Dont forget to take condoms". I asked him why would she say that. He didnt say but left right after. So, all night long this was going thru my head. So I text him this morning and this is what I said:
"Something has been bothering me since last night. The remark that you made about the condoms. I would appreciate it if you would keep comments like that to yourself. It was hurtful and I don't want to think of my husband that way. I just wanted you to know".
His reply back to me:
"I understand. The second it came out and I saw your reaction, I said, uh oh. wrong comment. It really was a joke, but I understand you still get the thought/visual when thats said. I apologize. Didn't mean to hurt your feelings;-)
