Tonight we'll see what her reaction is after thinking about it all day - will she go out after work? How will she be when she comes home? If she gets close to me in bed again it can only be a positive sign, if she stays out all night and acts cold then I guess I have an answer.

Here is where I think you might be a little off base. The fact that she snuggled with you all night and came back and that she also made the comment about possibly changing her mind about the L and the sex talk... all lead me to believe that there is some potential softening of her heart.

She is conflicted. She may even recoil today after reflecting on what happened yesterday. But... if her heart IS softening, you have all the reason in the world to continue your DB efforts.

I think there are going to continue to be bumps in the road, but my best advice is to keep doing what you are doing.


Me51 W53 S17 S14
M22 T25
Bomb-9/11; A-11/11; I move out 11/11

It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.

Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife