alcoholic H decided he wants D

[mishka422]

I hope he doesnt move in with her...that would be the end of me.

Not necessarily. Trust me. Sometimes that is when the blinders come off and that 'perfect person' who undstood them becomes just as big a drain on them as their family was. They have a whole new set of annoyances, stresses, etc.. They figure out that life is life no matter who you are surrounded by.

That doesn't mean they will come running back, but it is a nice reality check.

That was a very mature thing to do in giving the bed back. It shows growth and, trust me, he sees it too. Score one for ITM!

I'll tell you, your only option is the keep working hard on you and supporting your son through all of this. H will either come around or he won't. That is not anything you can control so there is no sense in fretting about it.

He is being served later today, right? Did you warn him it was coming?