Is this really an ultra marathon?

[workinghardguy]

I hear ya on the social thing JB. I did the same thing... took second seat and let my W play Social Director on our cruise. If anything, the re-building of a social life is the hardest part of all this for me. I'm inherently an introvert if given my way so that's challenging. "Hiding" is exactly the right term...

Somewhere a few months ago I saw something that said people can only say yes if you ask them. That's been the new mantra... ask. Worst things is they say no

My church doesn't have a men's group, but I've been considering, now that I'm not the new guy who wandered in the door, about approaching some people to start one. For an introvert that's a pretty scary proposition, but it would be one heck of a 180.