Marriage is work! It's the hardest job of your life!
A bit of a vent and relearning for me. We have plans to be out of town this weekend. As usual I made all the arrangements to have chores and critters all taken care of. H never asks about it, I never tell him. Today he screwed up my arrangements, and I ripped him up for it. He whines that he'll be late our plans today, doesn't know how he'll make it on time, how high his gaspump bills are, and now he's added miles and time that he doesn't have to give. Dumb.
It's also reminded me that I have to change the way I learned to survive while he was in lala land. I have to share and communicate better and stop the gaps we still have.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
