Peicing and hoping I'm doing the right thing.

[MynameisMZ]

I support your decision as well. It sounds to me that you did a lot ...I mean A LOT of soul searching and it was not a quick decision. Sounds like the IM was the final straw. You took a stand for yourself...and maybe that is what you've needed to do. I didn't get the impression that it was drama at all. If you were emotional in it...well "duh"....why wouldn't you be? I think there comes a time when you have to say, "Enough is enough" and not put up and shut up while it kills you inside, destroys you. Sometimes it comes down to preservation. I got to that point too and taking that stand was a catalyst to where we are now. I know it doesn't always work out that way, but I too was NOT going to tolerate ANY R between them; I was crystal clear about that.