Valeska,

Having him take care of this is a complete 180 for me. Like you, I always took care of everything. Partly because he was somewhat lazy, but mostly because of my need to control.

I don't want to control ANYTHING or ANYONE anymore but ME.

Our D will actually be quite simple. We have no kids, no property, no nothing to divide so it should be pretty easy. That is my hope anyway.
I think the anxiety comes from this not wanting to happen, and another day with no D papers means another day that H is still my H, even if it's just on paper.


"Everyone you meet has baggage. Find someone who loves you enough to help you unpack."
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