Still around. Hanging out with my W quite a bit lately. Went to dinner with her tonight and have plans for the weekend. Supposedly, things bw she and OM are over, although I don't ask about it or our R right now. One major positive sign that things are better is that she no longer treat me with, or talks to me with, the anger that she did from February through July. She is genuinely respectful to me and seems to enjoy being with me. She has even asked me to do quite a few things lately... even asked me to meet her at a party that she was at late one night.
She has asked me that things go "very slowly" between us. I have agreed.
All I've asked of her is for 3 things:
1) Honesty... including no omissions of truth 2) No OM in her life as long as I am 3) For her to care about my feelings
Told her that I would give her the same.
It has been exactly 1 year since the initial bomb that she was done with our M. She moved out 23 days later.
So... 1 year down and still no D. A lot has happened since. I've learned a ton and feel that I am a better person regardless of how things turn out. However, I still have a lot of hope that my M can be saved.
Still lacking time to really update here. Hope everyone is well.
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M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
