I know all about that anxious feeling. For quite some time now, I have been waiting for the draft settlement from my W. Before we had our discussion about a month ago, I was constantly checking my home email and holding my breath. I am still guilty of only going to the mailbox every so often. I hate that feeling.
Unfortunately, I don't think your H knows who he is really D'ing. It's like he's D'ing DG 1.0, but you're at DG 5.0 right now as far as you've come.
However, ^^^^ I think Val has some pretty good stuff up above.
I hope you have a great time this weekend. Tear it up!