Hi supportive friends, I know I should never give up and should keep fighting the good fight to try and save things but I am beginning to realize that will never happen. Realizing that eventuality has produced both sad and angry feelings unfortunately. My wife has every right to act as she is doing but I just don't understand why she wouldn't let me try to fix things. There is so much on the line but she says she is done and that nothing I do or say will ever change that. Sounds pretty clear when you stand back and think about it. I am trying to think about our children and what is best for them wrt the separation but I still come back to the idea that a family together is the best thing for everyone.