IM, 25 made some great points. You are walking a very fine line. The line between enabling vs. helping, caretaking vs. care giving, tough love vs. anger.
Only you can truly answer your intentions to recent decisions.
We can all speculate.. I speculate you did a little of both sides of the fence. It's easy to do. It's like a pendulum and when we realize we are ALWAYS at one side, our first act is to go the far other end.
Eventually we will learn that it's somewhere in the middle. We learn that through out mistakes. We learn that through our triumphs.
The line will get wider with time.. but until then.. do everything you can to keep your eyes on it.
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M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.
