actually, for the online dating world, 1 in 5 is great!
G, I just sent one today so it doesn't really count, so I'm one in four really! I enjoy sitting down looking at who the lady is and presenting what I think will appeal to her. No lying or fudging, just individualizing my approaches. I don't do "hi, check out my profile, hope there's a connection" and I'm sure ladies get tons of those. The Filipino woman responded to my humorous headline and my Tagalog. The first email I sent out to a lady I would write differently now. I'm learning!
