Sadak,

No there really isn't an instruction manual for the grey area...

Other than, keep on with what you were doing...

Possibly try to be her friend, maybe build that relationship...

I know it is hard.

Having a live in is hard. Not knowing if the "grey" area maybe means more...

You already posted the answer, just try to enjoy the positives and be prepared for the negatives.


"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox