I say, be leery of a WAW who is too agreeable too quickly. In fact, yours seem to be going overboard! You can have the kids every day (as well as do all the parenting, apparently), and she'll even continue to financially support you? And, to top that.....she is so concerned about you. Really sounds sweet, doesn't it? Sounds like she's thought of everything....how to comfort her parents, how to make this sound like an exciting journey for the kids.....even sneaked in that little part about it being a mutual agreement for you to move out. Then, she puts the cherry on top and makes you think she'd actually consider going to some D class. No surprise here, b/c we've read the same stitch from other men.....many, many times.
A WAW, who is in an A, can become like your BFF overnight if she thinks she'll get her D quicker. Sure she's telling you everything that she thinks will tickle your ear! The only thing I saw she had a problem with was telling the kids it's a time-out. This seems to be commonplace with WAW's also. They want no S time, no MC, no easing the kids into it.....they want it chopped off at the neck and go straight to D court. Have you noticed that happening when reading other posts from men here on the board?
I know I may sound cynical and hurtful, and I'm sorry if you take it take that way, but please believe me, your W is not the first to tell her H these things just to get what she's after. Yes, the emotional roller coaster, sadness, crying, etc., is not uncommon either. She's a mess, but it doesn't make her stop the insanity!
Please.......get a lawyer's counsel, fast.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
