it's more about YOUR needs and not about her failings. I mean, you have rights too, and needs and wants and feelings.
She's been cruel to you and incredibly unforgiving. I have no idea what her frame of reference is for "abuse" but she's blind to her abuse of you.
Her views are so skewed I think you are going to be suffering forever if you wait for HER to feel compassion for you.
Figure out what you can handle, give yourself a timeline even if only an internal unexpressed one. Make a plan. Don't wait to leave til you have nothing left inside for her.
B/C IF there's a chance for her to change, she might only after you leave or give her an ultimatum...
so IF she changes, you want to be able to forgive HER...make sense? I really think that IF there is hope in this sitch, you have to change tactics.
So don't do what doesn't work, for too long, and then just end it.
Make sense?
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