Get a bicycle and start riding. It will help you relieve stress, get you outside, get you in shape, etc. Once you get to like it, you can join a riding group or use that as another lever to meet people. I realize it's getting cold out but they have good cold weather riding clothes and Illinois is flat (great for biking), plus you can pick up a decent road bike cheap in Craigslist and looking for one is another thing to do with yourself.

--Accuray

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015