Marriage certainly isn't easy. Everyone tells us that. And those who choose to stay together and work it out...work it out....work it out.....REALLY get it. So many times people walk away form it. And you know....I have really come to believe that that would be easier........too much to go into here, but... it's a road less traveled to stay together and suck it up, do the hard work....and as my own H said the other day, "A worthy road." Some marriages just take a lot of work, most marriages do and so much has to be traveled together to even begin to know what depths we are willing to go to. In the end, we get to swim in the deep end. Makes me sad to think of how many never get out of the shallow end....and that's OK for them....not for us here.
I read somewhere that it may take an alcoholic 7 relapses to finally get sober...and then s/he still have to work it.
I agree...sing the praises of DB without calling it that....just use the stats etc.
Good luck!
MZ
M 55 H 58 M 24 T 29 S 22,21, 19 Bomb 4/10 It (A) really isn't about you 11/2013 We all have work to do
The truth will set you free, but it will almost kill you first.
