Totally agree. No actual "sex" at this point and would insist on testing before we do. Holding each other and caressing.
H is with a woman who is probably okay too...but what can you trust at this point?
Thanks!
That's great news, Nb. I know this is a horrible thing to have to talk about, but I always get concerned for people when they're considering this, but it's the sad reality. It sounds like you're being wise and careful, and I do wish you the best of success in your marriage!