3). Calmly explain that you know what she's been doing, that you can understand why she may have found herself here, and that you are still interested in saving the marriage. You're willing to keep working on it for the sake of your family, but to do so, you need her to permanently cut off all communications with Carlos. You can't make her do that, it's her choice. Tell her you'd like to work things out but can't do it alone, the decision is hers.
Then, keep DB'ing!
Accuray
Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015
