I find it hard to believe that hope or faith are bad things in any circumstance. When I did not believe my W had any chance of coming back it made me feel very desperate and alone. I would hold onto that hope if you can. If nothing else, it will motivate you to DB

--Accuray

Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015