If you have a compelling reason not to tell them anything - other than being hopeful - mention that to him. For example, tell him you're planning to spend this time enjoying the holidays so you're not going to be informing any of your extended family. Just thought you would want to know we're not going to be discussing you.
Something like that?
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
