Originally Posted By: luvhurts49
I know that our D is looming and I'm sure that it will be messy and I have halfway convinced myself that she isn't coming back, but still in the back of my head, I still believe that she will just wake up and come back.

Am I the only one that feels this way or have these types of thoughts or is this normal? I could really use some insight and/or perspective from you guys/girls.


LH49,

No, you are not the only that feels that way. I'd venture to guess that most of us feel that way, otherwise we wouldn't be on these forums.

I'm going on a year since the bomb and I still go back and forth on these thoughts. At this point though, I'm not even sure I would want my W back. She has a lot of work to catch up.

Unfortunately we have to move forward as the D will go through and focus on improving ourselves. At the end of the day, that's all we have control over.


Me:45 ExW:48
M:04/97
3 Bombs & 2 ReCons
1st BD 11/10
D Finalized 4/20
D-16 S-14
Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa