The text you got from your SIL is great. Not only is it nice to know she loves you and doesnt believe all the things your wife is saying. She thinks you are a normal messed up husband like everyone else. I think also it should make it easier for you not to slip up and say the obvious non DB stuff - "look at what you are doing to the kids?" etc. Sounds like your SIL is gonna say that stuff on her own.
great points! YOU do NOT NEED to argue with your w to convince her of the decision being a bad one.
She's already hearing that...let her!
Don't YOU be the messenger of how "wrong" she is...others can carrry that message to her and you can be GAL and becoming the man she always needed/wanted you to become. THe man YOU want to become.
do you see why?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
