Hi, itm, it's great he told your S on fb he is going to spend more time with him, hopefully he will stick to his word. Maybe re the other, he doesn't know just what to make of you now. You are stronger. A lot stronger; enough to know if there is a R, it will be after a whole lot of work. And you may be right, ow may have dumped him after what happened the other day.
And I don't blame you for getting a dig in about the bed, sometimes it's so hard to resist you almost have to bite your tongue off to keep from it. Plus, doesn't he have a couch? And, like you said, you have been good.
I know you are still hurting, even though you did what you had to do, and I will be thinking of you on Friday when your H gets served.