When it comes to this, do you have expectations? Have you read many of the other threads? One thing that comes across is something YellowBrickRoad mentioned: reconnecting takes work! Lots of it. And it doesn't happen as you would hope. It happens slowly - just like the problems did. Coming out of that period isn't a clean ending, but rather a slow and fraught with peril type.
Try not to have expectations. Have a beginners mind and keep your mind open to whatever happens.
Your H may not be ready to communicate as before. You may find that he is something different. But that doesn't mean he isn't trying or that it will happen fast. It will happen slowly and with starts and stops. Be patient and set your eyes on the future far down the road. Not on today or tomorrow.
You both are not the same. Takes time and effort even more than before.
Be well. Be open.
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
