The text you got from your SIL is great. Not only is it nice to know she loves you and doesnt believe all the things your wife is saying. She thinks you are a normal messed up husband like everyone else. I think also it should make it easier for you not to slip up and say the obvious non DB stuff - "look at what you are doing to the kids?" etc. Sounds like your SIL is gonna say that stuff on her own.
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13
