What's your instinct? Only you know what is right for you and what is not?
If he had not done these things, would you want him in your life?
I think it is natural to want to put up boundaries with a man that hurt you like that. I see you have not closed the door but rather seem to be feeling changes.
Boundaries can be a good thing. Healthy. Or they can be you trying to get back at him. Be careful which because this is a man you once loved and out of respect it would be wrong to look for retribution. Not healthy for you either in my opinion.
Certainly warranted, but not healthy in the long run.
Good luck and via con Dios.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
