Hey DG,

There isn't much I think anyone can say on here that is going to make your pain stop. It's part of the process.. and perhaps knowing that its something you are going THROUGH rather than staying stuck IN will be of some comfort. There is an end to that pain..

And in that pain, if you can find meaning and perspective, then that pain becomes something useful to you. It becomes a way to grow as a person and gain wisdom.

I'm confident that you will emerge from all of this stronger and wiser, and a much more solid person. If you choose to do so.

You've shown a lot of growth over the past 5 months that I've been on here, and I think that will serve you well in life.

People have issues. We can't change that, no matter how hard we try.. no amount of DBing is going to necessarily change another person.

Hang in there.. it will get better for you.


M: 32
W: 29
T: 9 Years
M: 4 Years
I hit rock bottom: 2/11
PA admitted: 4/11
WAW: 5/11
D filed: 6/11
now: Patience, wisdom, and growth - hopefully.