new to this..

[learning2listen]

lunch with H today..he initiated the R talk...we have been apart for 2.5 months, he says he is not happy ...but thinks moving back in would be stupid because all we have proven is we can break up?

Now he thinks we should continue to have lunches and possibly start doing "family" things, and if one thing he has learned is that nothing happens quickly.

My question to him was does he want to keep this up? and he said if we move slowly and continue working on ourselves and "us" then yes.

I felt something with him today that i dont think I have truly felt in a very long time, I felt love, and caring coming from him. He seems genuine, and when he hugged me good bye he seemed to hang on a little longer than what it has been.

I know this is not a reconcilation.. but it seems like we have the same goals, and we can talk again, without anger. I told him I didnt think this was going to be easy, however its a road I am willing to travel. am I being foolish?

I hang on because I know my H is there, I know there is noone else in his life, and I know family does matter, we drifted, we took each other forgranted, and for that we have to forgive and move forward.

This could be the beginning of something wonderful...