DG:
I know you don't want this. Neither do I. No one here does. But the process is going to continue, and you need to try to focus on NOT letting it tear you down. You do not know what is down the road, there is no way to tell. Be strong, be confident in yourself, and keep your head up. No telling what the future holds.

With you.

H 51, W 46
no kids
T 22 years
M 17 years
ILBNILWY 2/10
1st D talk 6/10
partial recovery
W files D 5/11
long distance separation 8/11
moving forward on D 10/11
legal separation complete 1/2012