alcoholic H decided he wants D

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Thank you everyone for your input and advice...I dont know what I would be doing if it werent for this forum. It has helped just to have a place to come and vent!
There has been an interesting turn of events in the last 24 hrs..
It seems like he is actually haveing some kind of remorse????
He started texting me yesterday again but had a totally different tone....still asking about a bed??? but like I said..the cocky indignent tone was gone. I never replied and he ended up showing up later to take our S14 to play some catch and get some dinner. A first lately since he hasnt seemed to have the time for him the last few months. The smile on his face when he came home was priceless!!!
This was after a friend of mine told me he posted on his fb page "A wise man once told me Dont (blank) were you eat"...I had no idea what this meant, she said its something about dont sleep with your co workier or along those lines..he does not work with any women so Im thinking we were correct in thinking it was a fellow AA memer that I caught him with.
Then this morning I got a good morning text,and tell S14 I love him....hadnt gotten one of those in MONTHS....I didnt reply till late and then only to let him know that S broke his retainer and I was gonna need a little help this month to take care of that. He replied with "ill see what I can do, I have to by a bed..."
WOW again with the bed...I tried but couldnt pass it up...i told him in a very hostile way that our son was my first priority not were him and his "girlfriend" were ummmmmm sleeping. but i used more colorfull language...
I know, not my best moment but Ive been so good...I lost it for a sencod ...he replied with "I was thinking along the lines of were Im going to sleep" and I left it at that. then he posted on sons fb wall that they were going to be spending alot more time together from now on, which makes me very happy. my son has been missing him terribly!!
anyway...all this "reaching out" has me wondering if he got dumped????? maybe she didnt know he was married? I dont know but the tone in his contacts now have definatly changed...there is no more attitude and I cant think what could have happened but Im continueing on my path..
papers were signed last night and he should be served by friday.. it was the hardest think ive ever done but I know it is the right thing. When I saw our date of marriage and seperation in black and white and had to sing...I just started sobbing. the lawyer asked if I was sure and I said YES!!
I still have hope, but its going to take alot of work to fix what he has done and I just dont know if he has it in him ....so I am feeling stronger then I have felt in years. No more questioning myself....it is what it is for now.