Totally makes sense. And in a way, is why I am glad H is traveling so much...I can gear up and do that for a weekend at a time. I'm also able to create a bit of mystery and he doesn't see some of the mundane/irritating parts of life with the kids.

But,

M 44, H 46
D11, D9, D5
Married 12 years
PA confirmed 9/2011
I filed 3/2012
H moved out 7/2012