Finah - thanks for your input. I've gotten a lot of great advise from 25yearsmlc and I think she's correct, that I need to focus on improving myself, and GAL & PMA. I think I will do just that, not focus on her affair or her issues, nor make her leave, but instead be the best man I can be and hopefully she will work on her issues. Maybe if I can change in any positive fashion the outcome of our issues will be different, i.e. it takes one to tango. In the meantime I will leave the light on for her.
