What do I do next?

[luvhurts49]

I've been reading quite a bit of other peoples sitch's throughout the many different topic on this site and it really has me confused as to classify what is happening between me any my W. By that I mean, is my W in a MCL? Is she a WAW? Or is she just depressed, confused, unhappy, etc and just wants a D so it can all end? It really is confusing when you actually sit down and examine the situation. So if anyone has any advice on this, I'd be happy to hear it as I am confused as to how all these relate or even how to identify one from the other.