Hi Gunny just working today. Thanks for checking in.

Had my C session last night. So Mr Bond and my IC both told me yesterday to get my nuts back. I agree, need to get a hold of my emotions and fears. My IC said that my W's behaviors are very odd. She also questionned why she would get a new L 15 days before our 1st court date. She also wondered why I want to save a R where W wants a D? I said that I loved my W and will try everything to keep my family intact. She said that she may not like the new person I am becoming. I said that will be her loss. She is also surprised that W is not asking me to leave and that we are not arguing. We also talked about some parenting issues that I agreed with. Told D 14 last night that she should stop texting till 1am since she can't get up. I said kids who don't sleep a full 8 hrs don't do well in school and have health problems. She said she will try. W again last night left me dinner and told me that my doctor had called. It is so confusing to leave with someone who does nice things at times for you and is pressing for a D.


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden