When I 1st confronted ow @ her involvement w my H she said that another young woman in the company was after him and it wasn't her (ow). Call this other "young woman" yw.
H told me that whenever yw called the office ow would say to him, "Your girlfriend is calling."
So, of course I've been observant and I do think that yw has a crush on my H. Whenever we are in the same place I catch her staring at him. At employee functions she always, I mean ALWAYS looks at him and says goodbye to just him. It's like I'm not even there. At the last employee dinner she had to clear the tables after people had finished. h finished his mean and I was still working on mine. This yw came over to our table and flirtatiously said to my H. "Are you finished Mr. F?" She then removed his plate and never...NEVER acknowledged my presence. I pointed out to my H that this really bothered me. So, after I finished I stood up, picked up my plate and walked over to her and handed it to her.
We are headed to training this week. H and I discussed renting a car so that I could sight-see. Yw was saying to H that she was going to have to pay $80 to get from the airport to the hotel. Guess what? He says she can ride with us. I told him that I wish he had consulted me before he said anything. He pooh poohed me and said I had absolutely nothing to worry about. If she likes him that is her problem. I said that wasn't the point.
Now I'm in the position of having to put up with her in the car for an hour or tell him that it isn't going to happen. If I say the latter, then I'm the B, unreasonable, won;t let go and blah blah blah.
What do I do?
M 55 H 58 M 24 T 29 S 22,21, 19 Bomb 4/10 It (A) really isn't about you 11/2013 We all have work to do
The truth will set you free, but it will almost kill you first.
