W told me she is done & doesn't love me anymore.

[luvhurts49]

Well Snowman, I feel your pain. Your sitch sounds almost exactly like mine. A good friend of mine keeps telling me, "it ain't over til it's over" and he's right. Just as in my case, we've got the lawyers and our D seems imminent, but I still have hope. And even if or when the D happens, I still have hope. Days, weeks, or even months after the D, I will likely have hope. I don't know when the hope will stop, but I know that someday it probably will, but until that time, I still have hope.