Feels like the Truman Show in some instances, the movie w/ Jim Carrey where everyone is watching his life, getting a kick out of it and he has no idea that the jokes on him.
But don't feel like a fool.......
I've played it both ways.
When I first found out about my WW's EA over a year ago......she had a smooth path back to the M. I didn't yell.....I didn't judge her......I didn't say how could you do this to me....I didn't cry or beg.....I didn't follow her around....I never even raised my voice about it.....and never brought it up again when we entered MC. I didn't expose to anyone........I very instinctively took a DB like approach......I didn't let her EA affect me one bit.....pulled some 180's......GAL..........felt like I played the situation perfectly.
2nd time around that approach didn't work.......when I switched up what I was doing & started playing hardball.......their A was all ready a runaway freight train.......almost didn't matter what I did and I was pretty ruthless about it.
Last time I saw my WW was over a month ago.......in the drive way........Me in my car.....her laying her head on my arm while I was playing w/ her hair........she sat there for about 45 minutes just staring at me..........almost in just a daze of awe...
I'll never understand.
My whole point..... you can only control your actions and reactions
The rest is really up to them.
Me:29 WW:26 No kids 2 dogs T: 11 M: 2 D-day 1: 08/2010 D-day 2: 05/2011 1 POSOM Separated: 06/2011 WW ILY commits to M 9/18 Files D 9/19 ILY Still 9/21 WW are fun
