Following one right now that is like your case and they are working on recovery.
Couple hurdles:
your WW infidelity your child that WW had w/ POSOM and the death of your child
A M w/ you is a constant reminder of all those things.
I'm not so sure you want to drive a wedge further b/w you two than there all ready is.
So I think it's important that your WW see's a way out of this........that you can lead her out of this.
You are the better father, you are the better man.
Let those qualities shine through.
I'd ask ur DB coach if they think it's a good idea to let your WW know that you have a plan out of this and you want to save your family.......whether that is through a letter or talking and addressing those hurdles and owning your side.
Me:29 WW:26 No kids 2 dogs T: 11 M: 2 D-day 1: 08/2010 D-day 2: 05/2011 1 POSOM Separated: 06/2011 WW ILY commits to M 9/18 Files D 9/19 ILY Still 9/21 WW are fun