AJM the time warp thing is weird. My xh is moving slowly through MLC and as he starts to make contact with his children again he speaks about them as they were 6 years ago when he left [and in the light of the stuff on rewriting history posted elsewhere he decided at one point that I left him!!!! Ummm, why would that be?]
Anyway there we are with him acting as if the children, now adult were still growing up. it is so odd. Like childless people giving a child a wholly inappropriate gift aimed for another age group.
The other weird thing is what he does not remember about the past 6 years. whole conversations, and seemingly swathes of time . .. . ] It must be terrifying.