Do I stay or do I go?

[anyhope]

Thanks for all your inputs.. Yes I did get tested for std's as soon as I could, so that's done. Haven't talked to a lawyer yet.. Just didn't get to that point yet.

I do think that h may have felt pressured by me so now he's after someone younger with no expectations. Makes life easier I guess, or we'll see..

I'm not blaming her (ow) I don't like her and I don't even try to hide it.. I do understand that my h is the married one in this picture and the one who made the decision to cheat.

I have now ran out of boxes, but almost done packing..